Lunar New Year in Jiang Nan, China

江南 - 就想起水乡, 美景. 这次没有背包, 陪同社团, 不用安排, 也可放轻松. 一向不听导游说话, 只顾看风景的我, 这次有点不同.

他讲的故事, 顺口溜非常丰富又有趣 . 一则是有关牵手:

牵到情人的手，一阵温暧在心头。
牵到小姨子的手，后悔当初娶错婆。
牵到老婆的手, 就像左手摸右手，
一点感觉也没有。


Initially, I thought he might "offend" tour group - especially the loving couple. There is actually some rationale or "deep thoughts" behind this saying. "Air" or "Water" that we need - normally is so common or nothing special. But they carry gr8 value in our lives. Married couples, no matter how young or old, may become "common" after some time. However, just like water and air, they are in a way become unseparable or forming a loving and unbreakable bond.

Extracted from a passage I read in a blog ~ 夫妻就像两只手，左手和右手，他们一生朝夕相伴，也许没有浪漫，正如人对空气感觉不到它的存在，可你却离不开它。那是一种亲情的相依，那是一种平凡的美，失去了其中任何一只手，都不会是和谐完整的美，只有相互牵手，才是最美。

夫妻之间手拉手，就像左手牵右手；没有激情有踏实，平平淡淡到永久。